I got set up to go to a fraternity’s formals with a boy I didn’t know. I had no reason for saying yes other than that my friends were all going and I wanted to join in on the fun. It ended up being a great night because we had weirdly similar personalities and both went a little harder than we should have. I had such a fun time that I ended up inviting him to my sorority’s formal. I figured, that if I had such a good time at his, the same would go for mine. We hung out a lot in the weeks between his formal and mine and we had a lot of fun together. I paid for three of his meals during this time, which I thought was odd, but didn’t really look into it.  I was just super excited to be vibing with someone that I thought was really cool, and I knew he was going to be a great date and that we were going to be the best couple there. I was GRAVELY mistaken. When we arrived at dinner he first jokingly asked if there was a dollar menu, and then proceeded to ask if I could pay. I agreed to pay, and he immediately responded by saying “Well, looks like I’m ordering the steak then!” I laughed thinking it was a joke, but it was no joke. He actually ordered the steak and about 3 drinks right of the bat. Ok, wow. Off to a rough start. I don’t care if someone is tight on money, but don’t go somewhere expensive if you can’t pay for it. After ordering he basically ignored me for the rest of the meal and walked around the table mingling with his friends and being obnoxiously drunk. When we left dinner, his friends were more polite to me than he was. After my date walked out the door about 10 feet in front of, one of his friends ran up behind me and said “If you open that door for yourself, I’ll have to kill you.” This cheered me up a little and gave me a slight hope that there might be some good college boys out there. When we got on the bus to head to the venue he literally sat on the complete opposite end from me. Still, whatever. But then we got to the venue, and that’s when I really realized how shitty he is. I couldn’t find him for over an hour, so finally, I just left. After I had  been gone for over 2 hours, I received a text from him asking if I was still there. I told him no and all he said in response was “okay. dope.” The next day he venmo requested me $7 for a drink he bought me.